Someone who
knows part of this journey, and indeed is part of this journey, said to me
“baby steps,” and I turned round and said “no – GIANT LEAPS”. This is the journey of both the baby steps of
the last couple of months, and the giant leaps.
I believe I am a different person, people tell me I am a different
person. I fight some of the same battles
every day, some haven’t changed, but I know Jesus had already won them all for
me.
Now at this
point, I see many people turning off.
Those of you who don’t want to know about God. Well – you’re reading this because you’ve
known me at some point, because you’ve been directed here, or because God has
brought you here. Please don’t switch
off just because this is mostly about what God has done in my life. Please simply accept that, and read on, and I
pray you will see God is real, Jesus is alive, and Jesus is alive in me, and He
can be in you too.
To start, I
must look at where I’ve come from. At
times, a dark, dark place. Actually
quite a lot of times – a dark, dark place.
If you read the last 90+ pages (my Word Document is on page 96 of all
the blog posts put together), you’ll see ups and downs at various points. You’ll see where the Lord has placed me and
places where things have been taken away from me. If you haven’t read all that at some point,
then I’ll give a brief recall of the bit before these amazing last few weeks.
Around
eighteen months ago, my best friend of 20 years, Paul, passed away after
suffering from cancer. He was the only
human friend I really talked to with any routine regularity, and the only
friend I’d properly kept for any length of time regardless of being involved in
a specific group and the friendship being quite limited to the activities of
that specific group.
I got
involved in two groups I had previously had to come away from in my attempts to
find friends, socialising and indeed something to do in my spare time. Over periods of months, they didn’t work out,
and I was kicked out of both groups within a couple of months, and it really
affected me. I wrote this of that time
in May 2017:
“I spent the next two weeks really
struggling, as I literally had nothing to do.
I can’t remember how many times I just wanted someone to phone me, talk
to me, and want to actually know I existed.
I lost count of how many nights I went to bed not wanting to wake up in
the morning, and then finding I never actually slept to wake up from. I lost the ability to talk to people at will,
without having to specially arrange something, without others being in the way,
and without it being forced to fit around a specific activity. Nothing has replaced that since, and I am
nowhere close to seeing an alternative.”
Now writing
in October 2017, I don’t miss either group.
At the time I had also gained and lost a couple of people I thought were
good friends, which turned out not to be the case. And in a way which only God can work, one of
these people introduced me to their then wife, with whom I am now good friends
with.
So, I’m going
through the daily battles in my world – mostly work related. The hardest thing looking back is that I
wasn’t seeing God at work, in the people at work or in me at work. I was constantly praying for a new job,
applying for jobs, trying to do anything and everything to get out of being in
a place which was destroying me for 45 hours + per week, and that I couldn’t
get away from even when I wasn’t at work, such is the life living with the same
people I work with.
Quite
honestly, I was stressed, depressed, anxious and suicidal at times, lonely and
a whole lot more. I wrote before about
going to bed, and praying the Lord would take me away in my sleep, only to find
I didn’t sleep, so I was still here the next morning. I knew I was at the time, I know I was now,
but all I knew to do was to pray for a way out, to be in a different place, and
to not feel so alone.
What came
next was my 30th birthday, as described in the previous blog
post. I prayed at the time for the
friend who was called by God to talk to me that morning would know how special
and important that day was. We both know
now, as it was the beginning of a friendship that has grown and grown and grown
since. We broke down the barriers that
were in the way that morning, and we let God in. God brought us together. We broke the barriers down and let God in.
I have to
openly admit that I let things go a bit quiet again. I know now that I had an encounter with God
that day, but I didn’t keep hold of it.
At work, I was worse than ever. I
felt lonelier than ever too – maybe because I had seen a friend, but not one
yet who I could talk to openly and freely.
I know we both prayed into an opportunity to meet together and meet with
the Lord, and to break down more barriers, and work out why the Lord was
bringing us together. In those weeks, I
had some very strong physical stress symptoms and sleeping got worse, and
nightmares came. I was being attacked
now harder as my strength had risen with the Lord, and at the time, I didn’t
realise it.
I was praying
more than previously, though many of my prayers were still “help” or what I
would call very passive prayers – perhaps even selfish ones. There have been many moments in church where
I’ve been able to share prayers during intercessions, but one at the end of one
week, I knew I was struggling. I went to
church on the Sunday morning in a mess.
I sat down in the back corner, and just put myself in prayer with the
Lord. The Lord gave me six words to
share in a prayer in the intercessions, and at that moment, I was attacked –
only 3 words actually came out. As the
service progressed, I had another attack and was nearly physically sick in
church. After the service I was just
left sat there, finding the Lord again.
I knew I could not move until I had sorted myself, and I didn’t
move. 4 people came and prayed with me,
and I left when I was at calm and peace with the Lord once more.
It really
pushed me to put some friends around me who I could, if nothing else at that
time, just give a string of issues to and ask them to pray into. Of the small group, most took the idea on
board, some even replied to my messages, a couple even started up what you
would call conversation. That week ahead
I knew would be a difficult one. On top
of 5 days of work, came next a Bank Holiday weekend, where all my plans had
fallen apart now I had no commitments to the groups I was no longer a part of. Before that came two of the days without my
parents at work – worse still, they weren’t going away anywhere, and they would
be around at home when I finished work, so I felt I had no space at all to let
go if I needed to, because as soon as I got home, I’d have to come out with
what had happened. Dad in particular
threatened to just turn up at work if he wanted to – his supposed excuses were
dealt with the day before he was off by the rest of us who instructed my
parents to actually have the days off.
The first day
of the two they did. The situations
weren’t brilliant. As with most things
then, I got through somehow, but I wasn’t coping with it. There were certain things left in a mess or
without explanation, things happen that were promised that nobody knew about,
and a lot more I can’t put on here, and it doesn’t really matter. That Thursday night, I was up half the night
on the toilet being poorly – the gases in my stomach were pushing everything
inside around, and it just wasn’t very pleasant at all.
I got through
work on the Friday somehow, but a lot of things were just left as I really
wasn’t very well. Indeed, I didn’t eat
anything properly until the Saturday evening.
Some people would call this a stomach bug, but it was a huge attack
mixed with my stress and anxiety. That
bank holiday weekend was a quiet one.
Saturday I spent trying to recover physically, Sunday was church and not
much else, and I’d run out of things to do by Monday. I prayed as I often did for someone to want
to be a part of my world, and for something to fill the blanks.
This time,
someone did want to fill the blanks. I
had a message asking if I wanted to go for lunch. I said yes, and then the anxiety kicked
in. I’d never done lunch with a friend
before. We’d talked about meeting up so
many times, but I’d taken it to be another one where a lot got talked about and
that was about as far as it went. I just
said to tell me where to go and you sort out what we do, because I have no
idea. I prayed, I was incredibly
nervous. Once we were sat down, and had
sorted out the worldly bit of dealing with our surroundings, all that
nervousness and anxiety went. We enjoyed
our lunch, and we went for a walk. I
gave some of my life story and where God was in me at that time, we sat on a
bench and prayed together – just us and God.
It was so, so peaceful. Something
I’d never done before, and I pray I’ll be able to do again sometime. God had delivered me something I needed to
do, a way to cope with it, and given me a clear angel to help me along my
way. And I knew God had given me for
them too, and so did they.
The afternoon
naturally came to a conclusion, in our own time. We said we needed to make sure this wasn’t
the last time. On the Tuesday, I went
back to work. Not easy, and now having
to deal with what didn’t happen on the Friday when I was poorly. As the week went on, I got worse and worse in
my mind. I had seen something I wanted
more of, but couldn’t get hold of it. On
the Thursday, I broke down several times.
The cries for help I sent day I walked out of work 3 times, and then
broke down whilst sending messages to people urgently asking for prayers. I saw another situation on the Friday I
thought I couldn’t handle. I don’t have
any messages that say I majorly broke again on the Friday, so I presume it
wasn’t as bad as I was fearing, but I wasn’t getting through a single day.
On the
Sunday, the Lord presented an opportunity to put a couple of issues
straight. On the Thursday evening whilst
I was well in pieces, three things happened.
I shared my situation with a handful of close friends who I knew had
been praying for me. I arranged to meet
with our minister from church for a chat, as I had now had two encounters with
God which were big, but I was struggling to keep hold of God in everyday work. And I got lumped with a reading for Sunday
morning’s service. The reading wasn’t an
easy one, and I recall not being very happy about being stuck with it – someone
had said yes before asking me. Recall
that last time the Lord called me on a Sunday morning, only three words of the
six He gave me got out and I was poorly from the attack made on me.
I didn’t
realise it at the time, but this was my time to show my strength, my faith and
the power of the Lord to overcome all of this.
It was our minister taking the service.
Again, I was in a corner praying deeply as I knew I was fighting to make
it work. We had the communion part of
our service first, and God had led us to take communion from each other rather
than directly from the minister.
Basically one person would take communion, and then give communion to
the next person. My heart sank. I had this huge fear of having to receive and
take communion with either someone I didn’t know that well, or worse with people
I am just not comfortable around. As it
was, the Lord put His hand on the situation.
There were two special people to me that week – the one I’d met up with
for lunch and shared the afternoon with, and grandma who had the worst of me
that day when I walked out of work. The
Lord worked so I received from one, and shared communion with the other. Hallelujah!
It was so peaceful and perfect.
I went back
to my seat, and was led to Psalms 133 & 134. At the end of the communion part of the
service, we sang. After that I was
called to give my reading. I was led to
read part of one of those Psalms first, and then my reading. I was so blessed that day. I had defeated the attacks from previously,
and stepped forwards with the Lord once more.
After the service, someone came up to me and gave me a big hug, and
started praying for me there and then.
They prayed for me to be freed from the devil’s attacks, and be open to
the Lord. It was such an amazing moment
– it just happened. They apologised
afterwards for just coming and grabbing me, but I knew the Lord had told them
to do that, and it didn’t bother me.
Indeed, I’ve really come to appreciate a good, decent, meaningful hug in
the last few weeks.
In the days
that followed, I was released, and I was free.
On the Monday night, I shared with that person that I had coped with a day
at work, and I started praying for that person using “we”. On the Tuesday evening we shared celebrations
of making that two days coping, and on Wednesday three days. I’d started really taking attention to some
bible study notes that I had been given, and actually reading them more than
just an odd day – and sharing them as the Lord was leading me. On the Tuesday evening, I had the meeting
with our minister. I had arranged it
when things were so dark the previous week, and now I was in such a better place. We shared testimony and prayer, and I was
feeling a real turning point going on.
That’s because God was taking control.
On the Wednesday evening, I again quietly shared of 3 days coping. I contacted a friend I hadn’t seen for a
while, and asked him if he had thought about going to a men’s breakfast we both
used to be regulars at. He hadn’t been
for a while, and I hadn’t been for over two years. It turned out that God was giving me the call
to go, and him too. I didn’t understand
why at the time – I had stopped going because by the weekend, I needed space
from Dad, and going with him to breakfasts wasn’t giving that space. Dad will talk about work to anyone and
everyone, where I just want to be away from it when I’m in the bad way I had
been.
But before
the weekend, danger was ahead. Thursday
completely broke me. It was like back to
square one. I nearly cancelled the
breakfast I had agreed to go to.
According to a message I sent, I got disturbed, and never did
cancel. As it was, I went on the
Saturday morning, managed to sit with my friend, and we had our own
conversation for most of the time.
Perhaps we weren’t that sociable with others, but the Lord had called us
both there to be with each other for that time.
The next
giant leap would come that Saturday afternoon.
It was the launch service for the new Lincoln Methodist Circuit. That’s several hundred people coming together
in a strange place. And God was calling
me there. I hadn’t committed to going,
but as it got closer and closer, God was pulling me and pulling me. I got in the car with my parents, and I
started shaking. We got there, and I
went in, being very shy, and still shaking.
We sat down – no space of my own and trapped around my parents. The service went on. The acoustics in the place were awful! I just sat there, shaking. I remember “with God, anything is possible”.
The end of
the service came, and I was still shaking.
I looked around for a way to get some space, and didn’t see one. We got up, and my parents started “mingling”
and I drew myself away from them. At the
front, activity seemed rather frantic.
It turned out time was a little tight to get all the PA, music & AV
equipment taken down before there was supposed to be another service. So, I just started clearing and tidying
cables. I knew the worship leader and
his parents, and a couple of the others involved. There were several people I didn’t know, and
a few people were wondering what I was doing – they were quickly told I knew
what I was doing and so I just carried on.
Then we got it all into 3 cars.
My parents had gone by now – we were supposed to have gone to another
venue for tea – or lots of sitting around chatting to random people. That’s just not me.
It started
raining, and we were rushing trying not to get the equipment or ourselves too
wet. I then asked where the equipment
was going, and what else I could do. I
knew the person’s house it was going to, and was offered a seat to help unload
it all, and then a lift back to where tea was.
We just got on with it. We had
all the musical equipment including a complete drum kit, PA and AV equipment
dismantled, packed and unpacked, and were back eating tea inside 45
minutes. I thought at that point this
was just a way of me being able to cope with that day, but the Lord had more
plans.
I had some
food, and then had some brief discussions with a few people, and then found
myself with the worship leader. There is
a back story here – I’ve known him for a long time, worked with him many years
ago when we were in the same church, always got on, but our paths separated
when he left the church I was in, which was shortly before I was told to stop
doing technical stuff. We got talking
about the group he had led worship with, which was formed from a Thursday night
meeting at their church called “Connected”.
We both commented on the acoustics, and he told me it was difficult for
him to play, lead and deal with the sound at the same time. I was quite surprised nobody was separately
dealing with sound, and told him he should have said something.
I had been
aware of “Connected” and there had been something put in my mind from a
previous discussion with his Dad – indeed the previous time I had seen his Dad
was at work on one of my disaster days, and I cried out to him to pray for the
situation, which was about to come full circle.
Basically, Connected didn’t have a “sound man”, and we quickly reached
the conclusion that that was going to be me!
We both started jumping around.
God had pulled me to that circuit service, not to be at the service, but
to be there afterwards to set the ball rolling for things to come at
“Connected”.
On the way
out, I said to his Dad “see you next Thursday” – and he had no idea of the
conversation. He said “I hope not” –
thinking I meant at work. So I said “No
– next Thursday evening!” We all started
jumping around. Even my Dad got what was
going on.
First, I had
to get through the week and a half in between.
It was a week and a half because Connected is different each week of the
month, and my “sound man” services were only required on two of the four
weeks. I knew if I was going to make a
proper go of this opportunity, I had to try all 4 of the different things, not
just the two I knew I had a place at.
That next Thursday was bible study – and the thought of starting in a
group of mostly strangers with bible study was too much, and I didn’t go that
first week.
The beginning
of the first week was challenging.
Indeed most of that week was challenging. By the Thursday my anxiety and emotions were
well on top of me again, and I was crying out for prayer. I had arranged to have the Friday off work,
watching trains somewhere different to the normal places we go, meeting with a
friend part way through the morning. I’d
decided to go early, as there was something I wanted to see.
Even that day
off was a disaster. What we went to see
was badly affected by an incident meaning what we went to see wasn’t there to
see. I got ¾ of the way there, and had
to dive to a toilet quickly – my stomach boiling over such was my state. That continued all day, and I never rested or
relaxed. All that week I’d been getting
nightmares and not sleeping. Even the
night before this when I was up before 4am, I was awake at 2am! I came away some 5 hours earlier than I had
planned, and made my way home, poorly and tired.
As before, I
was two days recovering, and it was Sunday again when I started to feel
sensible. This was another turning
point. Seemingly nothing specific
happened, but God was at work.
This next
week, I had something to aim at. Unlike
other things, there were no nerves, no worry, just peace. I knew I had been called to Connected on the
Thursday evening, I knew I was going.
First there were four days to get through. I shared the situation with the small group
of friends once more, but this time I had the Lord firmly in my grasp. But work still wasn’t good. I still wasn’t dealing with the raging attacks
from inside and outside of my situation.
I was in daily contact with a couple of people that week, and it made a
huge difference very consciously praying.
I was focussed on not getting pushed aside and making it to God’s house
where He had called me to.
On the
Thursday, I coped with work. I realise
now because I had the Lord with me, and I was focussed. I turned up to set up for Connected, and the
Lord put everything in place. I fitted
in, I was given freedom to fulfil my calling, and it was wonderful. It was some 5 or 6 years since I have been
allowed so much freedom. We all felt
that relief being lifted, and several people who came to worship that evening
knew something special was going on, if not exactly what. It just all fitted together.
At the end of
the evening, I was asked if I was doing anything on the Saturday evening…
But first
came the Friday – Mum and Dad were going away for the weekend, leaving me on my
own. They were supposed to be finishing
work early, but not as early as they should have. I had invited a friend to home, just to have
a chat and pray. They offered to cook
dinner with me as well, so we met up and waited for Mum and Dad to go, and then
went and cooked dinner, shared what was going on, I shared some of this
testimony indeed, and we prayed. Again,
this was something I’ve never done before – I’ve never invited a friend round,
never cooked with anyone outside of my parents, and never felt to free to not
have to worry about what someone else might be thinking. We were both truly blessed, and we prayed the
opportunity would come up again, or with one or two others perhaps?
On the
Saturday, I went on tour with the “Connected Band” at another church. A few people were surprised to see me there,
but I knew God had called me. We set up
and got sorted, but there were some gremlins going on. We were being attacked. We brought it all to the Lord, and worked
around every single problem, and the evening was a wonderful ministry to those
who came. I remember even spending some
time with the Lord in peaceful prayer myself that evening.
The following
day was our Harvest Festival at church.
I went knowing that was my chance to talk to people and have whatever
time I needed in church without being in the timescales of my parents, who were
still away. I was very much in a
brighter place after the previous 3 days – I had coped with 2 days at work and
had three amazing evenings with the Lord.
The Lord called me to do something special that morning. After the sermon given, the Lord called me to
give testimony of the gifts He was harvesting in me. So I stood at the front, and gave a very
brief version of what I have written above, that I was starting to cope with
work which I hadn’t been doing for so long, but that I was seeking prayer for
the attacks and situations I was not yet on top of. The church prayed for me there and then. I still feel so blessed to have been able to
share. Indeed, there were two special
people who fitted into the story who weren’t there, so I got a copy of the
recording and sent it to them, so they too could share in what the Lord has
been doing. And I know many were blessed
through the words I was given.
This was
another big turning point. I coped with
the Monday, and Tuesday, and Wednesday, and Thursday… A friend had asked me if I would take her to
Connected, sensing how special that had been for me, and sensing she needed a
God focus during the week too. But I had
just got through 4 days – and was aiming at a full set of 5. Connected was in prayer that night – this was
the week I needed to start talking to people there and not being that person
who did the sound last week. I figured
the worst case was I’d be able to sit in prayer on my own and just have space
with the Lord. I had come so far, but
had the hardest bit to go – that fifth day…
As it was, I
was uplifted. Some of the prayer
focusses were just where I’d come from, so I gave thanks and focussed on the
going forwards and praying for others. I
got through the necessary barriers. On
the Friday, I finally made it 5 whole days, and thus a whole week at work
coping. My goodness the attacks came,
but I fought each and every one away, and went home in tears. Actually, I didn’t go straight home. I plastered Facebook with a celebration, and
then went to see Grandma. So many times
I have turned up on her doorstep in floods of tears – that night was no
exception, but the tears were relief and excitement – happy tears. My uncle was with her, and we sat and talked
and shared for about an hour.
That evening
I spent all evening replying to messages of love and support that had come in
on my Facebook, and sharing this huge achievement with people, and sharing
ministry, prayers and testimony. By the
end of the weekend, I had people I’ve not seen for a long time wanting to meet
up and catch up, people asking for prayer, and just generally feeling so
blessed. At church, I was bouncing
around the place again, sharing with those I’d not been able to message. People were saying how blessed they had been
with my testimony the previous week, and how called to pray they had been. Then I was able to tell them I had coped with
the whole week – looking back – for the first time for at least 18 months. Tears of emotion and joy were shed.
The next
week, I again coped with the whole week.
At Connected, I proved that my ministry through sound was not a one off
– again the Lord blessed the whole evening.
We had a speaker, as he spoke of his testimony, I felt the Lord saying
to me “that’s you, that’s you” – everything he gave of the Lord was totally
what I have been receiving. When he finished,
he said there was someone else with a testimony to give – that was me. I gave the short version of this once again,
to a group of people who mostly didn’t even know my name was Daniel. The moment was perfect, my words from the
Lord, and it really broke the ice at Connected.
I had a first
train trip that weekend for some time, and for the first time in a long time,
actually felt I was having a day away without needing to get away, without
feeling I was running away, without feeling under pressure to need to relax in
that one day, and probably never doing so as has happened so many times. Instead, I sat on a train for many hours,
chatting with the two friends I was with, watching the world go by, listening to
the train, and praying. That morning, I
had automatically put my holding cross in my pocket. I thought nothing of it until I started
getting messages to my phone during probably the most expectant part of the
journey. To the noise of the loco
pulling the train up a 1 in 36 incline, I was sat there sharing messages with
two friends who were, entirely separately, struggling. They had chosen me to talk to, to share with,
and I prayed with and for them. I got so
emotional, I had to go in the toilet and let the emotion go and pray quietly
for them. The whole experience was a
huge reminder that God is everywhere, all of the time. It is an honour to pray and share with
people, especially when they trust me.
In truth, I cannot think of another time like this. I pray it won’t be the last.
As I write at
the end of week three, I have again coped every day. THREE WEEKS!
Some people may think I’m excited about nothing, but from where I’ve
come from, this is HUGE! At Connected, I
was able to be part of a bible study and discussion without completely freezing
through discomfort or not understanding.
At the end of the evening, the prayer I was given to share silenced the
whole room.
The next
evening I was again on tour with the Connected Band – and as before, the Lord
granted us perfection in our worship. I
had a brand new sound mixing desk, and had absolutely no problem finding my way
with a new, blank canvas.
On the
Saturday, I went to the railway station to watch trains. Nothing unusual in that at all, but I held
conversation with one man for nearly four hours! Then turned to the Lord, and said “what next?” Another friend came along. Indeed, one of those I was on the trip with
the previous weekend. He noted how much more
relaxed I was. He knows the Lord, and
has had plenty of battles himself, but we talked about God, our faith and
shared testimony for some time – I’ve known him quite a while now, but it was
the first time we have shared together in the Lord.
When he left,
I found myself waiting for a train that was 40 minutes late. I figured that I’d been there for many hours,
and so another 40 minutes wouldn’t make much difference, and I had no reason to
be anywhere else. Then came a friend I’ve
not seen for several months. We got
talking, and it turned out a member of his family is being diagnosed with
Autism. I was able to share some of my
experiences and offer him some advice from things I’ve seen and faced as
someone with autism. Eventually, I went
home satisfied and in peace that the Lord had kept me there to share with all
of these people.
Church the
next day was a bit different – we were celebrating the work of CAP (Christians
Against Poverty) – which our church is a Debt Centre. I was troubled by the lunch that was to
follow, and all the time where I was supposed to be chatting and
socialising. I sat there praying the
Lord had some purpose for me being there.
And the Lord did have a purpose.
By the end of the intercessory prayers, the church had prayed for CAP
generally and those being reached by CAP, but not those in the church carrying
out the CAP work and ministry. The Lord
stood me up, and stopped the final blessing which was about to be given. I walked to the front, and called the church
to pray for those involved in the CAP work.
I invited those involved to the front to be prayed for, and led that
prayer from the front.
After the
service, and during lunch, I was talking with a lot of people. I shared more parts of the testimony written
here over lunch. I lost count of the
amount of people who had been touched by my calling to pray for people during
the service – there were so many. I knew
again why the Lord had called me.
And so life
with the Lord goes on…
But it’s not
the whole story. Work particularly
hasn’t been easy. I’m not lost that I’m
waiting on the Lord for the right door to open to let me go from where I am. The right opportunity, the right time, the
right person? I’m feeling my life has a
long way to change yet, and the journey has just begun.
What I do
know, and am so thankful for, is the small army of friends who are praying,
have been there, are supporting me. That
army has grown over the last few weeks.
I have new friends, old friends and one special best friend – King
Jesus. He’s in charge now. I’m determined not to let go this time.
I found my
holding cross – buried in my bedroom, and now it sits in my pocket. When I get attacked, I grab hold and give it
straight to the Lord. I’m not waiting
for Sunday, or tonight, I do it now.
That’s been a huge difference.
I’m sharing with friends who share back, which is huge. I’ve had so many one way friendships, that
it’s so amazing I can’t describe to have real friends, sent by the Lord to look
after me, and know that I am sharing with them too, and looking after
them. There may be only a couple of
really close friends, but that’s enough.
Those friendships are growing.
Where we’ve hit a wobble, we’ve dealt with out and brought our
friendship back to the Lord, and He’s healed it.
Although I
still feel alone physically, emotionally I feel so strong. I am fighting the attacks so much better and
quicker. No longer are things getting me
down for days. The attacks still come,
both physically and emotionally; it’s just me dealing with them so much better.
And now I go
forwards, building friendships, moving closer to the Lord, feeling confident to
take the opportunities to share with people, accept the invites of people
wanting to catch up for example, and knowing I am in the right place with King
Jesus. The difference in me is huge. I fight with the armour of the Lord
protecting me, and with the sword of His Holy Spirit extended to deal with the
attacks that come my way.
People are
telling me I’ve changed – I am still changing.
People are telling me I’m “on form”.
People are telling me how I am blessing them – the Lord is blessing You
through what He gives to me. People are
responding to my words, my prayers, the things I share on social media, they
are asking for prayer, they are opening up to me and to the Lord, and the Lord
is giving me words and prayers to pray for and with people. And the most beautiful image I have is of one
friend having been totally immersed in the Lord’s peace, let me pray with them,
and seeing the peace flow through them whilst I was praying, and knowing they
were totally with the Lord at that moment, and they knew it and acknowledged
it.
People keep
telling me I have a ministry in prayer.
I am not sure where the Lord is taking me in this ministry – but I know
He is taking me somewhere. I feel like I’m
only at the start of exploring what the Lord is calling me to do through
prayer. Being asked to pray for someone
is special – so many of my friendships have only been one way – they haven’t
felt able to share back with me. These
last few weeks, prayers have been moving both ways. It’s even more special when friends ask to
meet up, and more so still when we do meet up.
For me who so often sits here alone, it’s like a dream to break all the
life barriers down and sit with someone – talk, pray, share… I’ve had a couple of opportunities now, but I’ve
struggled when those opportunities aren’t there. I feel I’m limited at the moment. I don’t feel I’m maximising the call the Lord
has given me, and I’m not seeing where or how to develop the situations. I pray the Lord will give me vision for where
to go next.
Going
forwards, every day continues to be a battle.
As I’m having more bits of conversation, I get frustrated when they so
often frizzle out. I’m still
misunderstanding what people are saying daily.
I know I feel lonely at some point every day. It’s sometimes worse when a time of sharing
or opportunity passes – and I realise my day to day situation is just me. I find it difficult if I realise I won’t be
able to see someone who has stood out for a long period of time, or if I have
to miss something I want to be a part of because other commitments place me
elsewhere. I don’t get many
opportunities to break out of the place I spend most of my time. I don’t get many options to actually meet
with friends. When they come, they are
so special, but when they aren’t there, I miss them so much. I know I push my friends. I know I push on them because I have
relatively so few. I always want more of
their time than they do of mine. It’s
one thing I find hard to deal with, as so often it feels like friends don’t
want me, or only want me when I fit in.
So often, I don’t fit in, or I can’t cope with the bigger groups of
people, or I just don’t see how the big exciting things fit. Someone asked me the other week what my ideal
weekend would be, and I said “sitting on the sofa with that special person and
being totally at one with them – feeling able to be physical and emotional
together – I just dream of being able to share all of my life with someone, and
have someone feel the same about me.”
Well –
actually, I have the Lord. I share my
life with Him. He is with me all of the
time. He holds my hand, He sends light
to fill my darkness, He guides me through my battles, and we come together in
great strength, love, peace and power to fight every moment.
In these last
weeks, my life has changed. The Lord is
sharing words, prayers and encouragement through me, He has called me to
ministry through prayer and sound, He has blessed me with new and old friends,
people to talk to, opportunities to do new things I have never done before,
amazing images of people touched by His work in me, and so much more… There is so much more than I have been able
to share in this post.
I pray you
have been touched as you have read this, as I have many times as these events
have taken place, and again putting them into words to share. I pray for you if you don’t know the Lord,
that you will see He is real, and how He has been working in my life. Please feel free to leave a comment of how
you have related to this, or perhaps put a message of encouragement for others
too? Perhaps this has called you to
write about what is going on in Your life?
I pray for
what comes next, and I pray for those called to be my friends, and to be a part
of my journey, that the Lord will continue to bless us, and build our
friendships, and develop our journey, and we will be open to His calling.
All thanks,
praise and glory in this testimony is solely to King Jesus. Amen.